Many of us don’t know what strength we have inside us. And therefore we stay dependent on others and don’t get the happiness, self-confidence which we want in our life. I, Bhavin.J.Shah, Personal Transformation Coach, am going to talk about seven such qualities which will show your strength. These seven qualities will show how internally and externally strong you are as a person.
7 Rules That Will Show Your Strength
1. Open Mind For Change
Many of us want to bring change in them but have a fixed mind-set, they feel that what they are thinking that is only right. They don’t want to accept other’s opinion. Whereas some people have growth mind-set. They are such people who keep their mind open for change. Wherever they get new thoughts, they accept it with ease. You have to see that whether you have a growth mind-set or a fixed mind-set? If you have a growth mind-set then you will be open to change and it will increase your growth.
2. Ask For Help
Many people don’t ask for help because they think, “I will look small, my value will decrease or he/she might reject me.” But if you want to show your strength or stay strong then whenever you feel that, “If I ask this person’s help then my work will be done” Then definitely ask for help.
3. Learn To Delegate
To ask for help is one thing and to delegate your work is another. Not everyone can do everything. He has to delegate his work to someone. One thing that happens well when we delegate our work is that we get some free time and we can learn something new. Many of us say, “Others don’t work with as much perfection as I do.” Understand one thing that if they are doing work with 70%-80% perfection then the time saved in this can be invested in learning new things rather than wasting it by doing all the work by yourself.
4. Embrace Failure
It means that face the failure. Many of us want to be strong but at the same time we are scared from failure. Many times during session I ask people, “How many of you want to go to heaven?” And many people raise their hand. And if I ask, “How many are ready to die right now?” No one is ready to die. People want to go to heaven but don’t want to die likewise we want to be successful but are not ready to face the failure. Embracing failure means standing up and facing it, fight with it and be successful.
5. Invest In Yourself
It is very important. All the above four points come if you have done this. It means we invest in ourselves to learn new things, to know about new things. The more we will invest in ourselves, the more knowledge we will be able to get. It is not necessary that you make an investment with money only. You are reading this blog likewise there are many other blogs from which you can learn. Even this is an investment.
6. Formulate A Plan Of Action
Whatever we have learned till now if you don’t take action after learning this then how will it benefit you? It will just remain as a knowledge in your life. I always say, “Actions speak louder than words.” No matter how much and how big we talk about things but if we don’t take action in life then nothing will happen. From the above points, if you feel that you need to work in any of the area then take immediate action for it.
7. Never Give Up
Imagine that you took the action but you didn’t get the result for it. There is a very thin line between successful people and unsuccessful people. Successful people never give up. They keep on trying, no matter how many times they fail, they again stand up and fight but don’t give up.
If we want to be strong from inside and outside then these seven points are very important.